Psychic Energy Vampires
I have regularly used the phrase "psychic vampire," or "energy vampire" to describe an individual who extracts energy from others in order to survive of their world. We have all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. Nevertheless it is just not usually a acutely aware endeavor.
Narcissistic action is really an "unconscious" behavior. The perpetrator is just not usually aware of how his actions are affecting others. Quite the opposite, the perpetrator often feels he's the one being victimized. Narcissistic people are normally energy vampires.
How does one know when his/her energy is being harvested? It is really quite simple. Just be aware of how you're feeling around different people. Start making mental notes. Some individuals will leave you feeling completely happy, energized, or nurtured. Others will go away you feeling drained, tired, depressed, offended or confused in some way.
If the one that leaves you feeling tired and drained has this affect on you more often than not than they're likely an energy vampire. You might enter the interaction or dialog feeling good about something and during the course of the dialog you're remodeled into feeling bad. For instance: Say you just bought a big promotion at work and you might be really excited. You go house from work and you might be high with excitement and share the great news with your partner. He listens to you talk about your promotion after which says something like "Good for you! Hey did you take my blue water bottle this morning?"
O.K. his words weren't obviously cruel or condemning. He even said "good for you!" But by some means you feel that you haven't been heard and that he would not really share in your excitement. Actually it appears more that he could care less. You're feeling a plummet in your energy and immediately you are not feeling very excited anymore. Chances are you'll respond by saying "No I haven't seen your blue bottle!" And...he goes on to deal with the bottle asking you if you're certain you did not take it because you have a habit of taking his stuff, etc.
The celebration of your promotion at work was lower very short. Actually if you want to celebrate at all you'll need to call a pal who truly cares about you and your good news. However by now chances are you'll not really feel much like celebrating. You could feel that your promotion really isn't that big of a deal after all. Particularly for the reason that particular person closest to you would not seem to think it is.
Everytime you feel a sudden plummet of your energy whether from a pal, an acquaintance, a co-worker or a spouse or partner, you could be dealing with a psychic energy vampire.
A psychic vampire shouldn't be necessarily a psychic particular person however quite someone who preys on the psychic energy field around a person.
I am very sensitive and read energy quite easily now. But up to now, I did not know sufficient about this sensitivity to be able to interpret what was going on with me and why I often felt drained when round a lot of people, or sure individuals especially. Now I am pretty aware of what's going on round me and know when to go away a room or a situation.
I meet a variety of psychic vampires who appear to be just normal folks going about their business. However here is what I notice. These type of individuals seem to need something from me. I notice the conversations tend to be one sided where they are doing all the talking and I'm doing all of the listening. There is no such thing as a true interaction. If I try to relate or share something about myself pertaining to the conversation, I feel as if I am not at all heard. My contribution is passed up as they proceed their dialog as if I haven't said a word.
After I ask myself what the intention of these folks could be I see they're looking for admiration, approval, positive feedback, are trying to sell me something or get me to imagine something. If I begin to really feel irritated, drained, or tired, I instantly excuse myself and leave the conversation.
In healthy relationships we feed each other. We share energy. One among us might be feeling down and the opposite can encourage us and say things to support us which can convey us up. Other times we are the ones serving to and encouraging the other. It is a give and take energy change that's mutually beneficial. Nonetheless with energy vampires, there isn't a give and take, only take. They don't have any energy in their own reserves to give.
A psychic vampire or energy vampire is an emotionally and spiritually depleted individual. He does not have an inside life and isn't spiritually related to life. He has spent his life extracting energy from the outside instead of learning methods to go within and cultivate his own interior garden.
Think of the human body and its need for vitamins and minerals. Our bodies have the ability to fabricate most of what we want from within if given the proper vitamins and building blocks. However to illustrate a person eats nothing but junk food and then takes a whole lot of vitamins. He is relying on this external substance to feed him instead of feeding his body healthy substances that build his body on a cellular level. If he actually wished to be healthy he would be taught that he needed to cleanse out all of the toxins that have been accumulating from years of bad eating and then begin taking in high nutrient dense foods to rebuild his body.
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